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The Over 50 Dating Scene

If you're over 50 years old, you've likely heard many times by now that you're over the hill. What started this rumor that once you've reached the middle of your life, it's all downhill from there? Today's baby-boomers will stop at nothing to put an end to this rumor. They'll prove that the over 50 crowd is stronger and smarter than ever. Those over age 50 are more physically active than ever. Many have a decent amount of disposable income. This group is politically active, culturally motivated and in tune with modern trends. Many of those over the age of 50 actively date. Loss of a spouse or partner due to death or divorce or other life situation is no longer the beginning of many lonely years spent in mourning. Instead, dating for the over 50 crowd is big business.

If you're over 50 and you'd like to date, put your fears aside. There are so many safe ways to meet others who are in a similar situation. No longer do those over 50 have to rely on friends or family or neighbors to provide them with dating opportunities. A quick search on the Internet will reveal an abundance of dating opportunities for those over 50.

Senior dating websites, singles cruises geared towards the over 50 crowd, and pre-arranged day trips are just a few of the dating opportunities awaiting senior citizens. If you think it's time to begin dating, put your fears aside. Yes, finding a suitable mate is a scary process. But instead of looking for a mate, just start out looking for a date. The rules of dating have not changed much over the years. The purpose of a first date is and always has been a way of determining whether or not a second date is likely. A first date is not a make or break type of deal. If the pairing does not work out, the only thing that has been lost is time. If the time spent on the first date was even a bit enjoyable, then nothing, really, was lost.

Senior Dating and the Internet

Times have changed and so have relationships. Back when the over 50 crowd was at prime dating age, a date consisted of two people meeting somewhere away from home. Dating couples typically went to the local diner or ice cream parlor where they shared a root beer float. The rules of society dictated that dating was to happen in public. Today, however, dating has changed. There are still plenty of opportunities to date outside the home, but plenty of relationships have started right on the Internet surrounded by all the comforts of home.

Fire up your favorite search engine and type in the phrase "senior dating services" or something similar, and in seconds, you'll have at your fingertips a plethora of matchmaking opportunities. If nothing else, you can take comfort in knowing that there are hundreds and even thousands of single people over age 50 who are interested in dating or creating new friendships, just like you.

Most online senior dating services require you to sign up for the service. Some services are free and others require a membership fee. If you do not like the policies of the first over 50 dating website you visit, then move on to the next one, and continue to do so until you find one you like. The senior dating sites all operate in a similar manner. Most will ask about the age group and gender you are interested in meeting, and whether or not a particular geographical area is desired. Once you have joined a senior dating website, you'll likely be invited to join in chat groups, and you'll be able to search for other members meeting your criteria. You may even be able to fine-tune your criteria to find others meeting your initial criteria and that also share common interests or hobbies. Many offer the capability to view photographs of other members and also to post photos of yourself so that other members can see what you look like.

Senior dating websites often include an area where members can post personal profiles of themselves. In the profile, members can tell about themselves, including hobbies, career choices, political participation, family history and more. As other members read through your profile, they should be able to get a good idea of who you are. Sometimes, though, a person will not put much personal information into their profile and as a result, may not get the reaction or attention that they anticipate from other members.

As connections are made, members of senior dating services are free to correspond back and forth with the other members, at a pace that makes them comfortable. There's no need to feel pressured into setting up an in-person date until both members feel comfortable doing so.

To many people over age 50, the Internet is unfamiliar territory. As such, it is important to understand and be aware of certain things before joining a senior dating website. First, carefully review the fee structure including how often you will be required to make subscription payments. This is very important since you likely will have to provide a credit card number to join a senior dating service, and you likely will give authorization in advance to have your credit card charged. Free services are not always better, either. You won't have the same concerns regarding payments, but you may encounter a greater number of persons of questionable motives on free senior dating websites.

Also, remember that what you see is not always what you get when it comes to senior online dating services. Photos can easily be manipulated so the person you see in the photo may not resemble the person when it comes time to meet face-to-face. Sometimes people post photos taken many years ago so you see a much younger looking person than you're likely to encounter. Words can lie, too. Someone might post the most impressive profile as a way of getting a lot of connections, but in the end fail to live up to the lifestyle that is presented in the profile. So, when pursuing the over 50 dating scene on the Internet, proceed with caution. If this method of dating does not sound like a good idea to you, then try some of the other senior dating alternatives.

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Sally e-mail
I am very active female with lots of energy. I do not look my age as I am told so often. I love the outdoors, boating, reading, football, would like to learn to play golf, love travelling, going to restaurants, theatres, movies. I love New York born & raised, moved to Lehigh Valley area recently, would like to meet friends especially a male friend.

Norman e-mail
Hello - now retired, would like to get to get out and have some fun - normx

Gemmy e-mail I am a 69 years old Japanese woman
I live alone, I have many interest - reading, hand craft, cards (contract bridge) watch sports, travel, bowling etc
but speak English not well so that I'm looking for tender native man.
Regards Gemmy

Leone Herbeck e-mail
I am a widow now for almost two years. I am an attractive white female, as boring as that sounds. My biggest deficit is that I smoke cigarettes. I know that in my age group I should be able to meet men with the same affliction. When I started smoking, it was "cool". Now, well you know. I am intelligent, have many interests, no particular religion, but thank God everyday. Would love to travel and have many items of interests for the right person. Do you like to work? Do you like to accomplish something? I do! I am yours